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• Nothing or only very recent postings in Google, Linkedin, Ebay, Facebook, or anywhere; He's a ghost and a big risk.
• Keeps talking after the appointment is booked; can't follow through.
• Asking questions already answered in your add; is getting off on the interaction with you.
• If he is panting and breathing heavy on the phone - he is jacking himself off while he's talking to you. Hang up or use a loud whistle or horn to deafen his ears.
#2 First Meeting If you are a per hour girl for an agency you usually meet at the client's place or hotel room and you have the first 30 seconds to sense if the client might be trouble, or police or not. The agency has the address and probably his credit card, but the credit card could be stolen. This is where meditation exercises are really useful as they increase your ability to sense danger or something fishy. As an independent it is generally safe to meet with the man first, say for a drink at the hotel bar before you go up to his room, or meet for coffee before going to his home. This gives you a chance to size him up, if he is clean and not smelly, and doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. A per day or high end companion will get the client's full name and work address and phone him discreetly at work to make sure he is who he says while keeping light "get to know you" communication with the client. Then arrange to meet to size him up in person. A client that gives his real name and place of work is a lot less likely to cause any trouble.
#3 The Date • Would you want to have him for a regular?
• Was he comfortable to hang out with or did he try to get into your head?
• Did he want to have sex during the whole session or spend more time hanging out?
• Was the sex comfortable or pleasurable or did it hurt and leave you drained?
• Did he pay you with out haggling and did he leave an extra tip or gift?
• Did he seem like a genuine and generous person who will continue the relationship?
It is a lot less stressful and easier to stay discreet and safe if you see fewer clients who pay more for longer blocks of your time. So the more effort you put into your product and into your screening the better off you will be. The other advantage of thoroughly background checking prospective clients is that you get to find out what they like to read, buy, and other things that interest them, so you can be a better companion for them.
Homework 1. Research a link list of background check services and tools to keep by your computer.
2. Make up a set of questions for your web contact form.
3. Make up a set of standard answers for emailed questions.
4. Create a set of frequently asked questions and standard answers for new clients.
❦19 How To Get Them to Pay?
Point of sale, POS, or where money changes hands is the most important department of your business. If you don't get paid, there is no point being in business, so Point Of Sale or POS is where you must have strong focus in.
Pricing Even wealthy men like to think they are getting a deal, so use some creative math in your pricing structure. Don't make one hour look like the best deal. Raise your prices to VIP level, usually three times the local average rate, and make your longest packages look like the best deal…
Example of old pricing: $ 350 per hour
$ 675 two hours
$ 1,000 for three hours
Example of new pricing:
$ 200 Coffee or lunch at a public café, talk only $ 800 One-hour tête-à-tête – Regular friends only $ 1,500 for two hours rendezvous
$ 2,000 Three hour date and an aperitif
$ 5,000 Twelve-hour sleepover and breakfast Remember you are looking for 3 or 4 or less special high paying men per month, not per day. Less work more pay, less clients, more time for you.
What is the best way to be paid? • Cash is Queen - Always prefer CASH. In a red envelope in a gift bag, preferably with a gift, when you meet and before the date begins. Cash is discreet, no paper trail, no charge backs, no bounced checks, and you can pay tax on it through your own choice of legitimate business.
• Credit cards can be charged back and leave a paper trail, but you can discreet bill if you register a legitimate generic business to take credit cards, such as a marketing consultant or business coach, but look the part of your straight business in case you are busted. For example if you work in-house with a cover as a business consultancy, decorate the rooms like offices and use beds that fold into the walls and hidden shower nooks, and dress in sexy but well cut business suits and expensive stiletto pumps.
• Checks can bounce and leave a paper trail, but cab be cashed discreetly if you register a legitimate
marketing
generic business, such as or men’s issues councilor or
venture capital consultant, and also to take credit cards. So long as you pay tax and stay out of trouble most authorities will leave you alone.
• Trade is also a way to get large ticket items, such as dentistry, surgery, gift certificates, car repairs and other useful items.
When to get paid? • When you meet your date, before the festivities begin. Before the date begins is the only point of leverage you have to gain a client's respect and get paid, or leave before your time is further wasted.
• Have your client put cash in a plain red envelope and give it to you in a gift bag or lady’s purse. The red envelope is a Feng Shui good luck procedure.
• If your client seems forgetful of paying you upfront, lightly place your hand on his arm and softly say something polite, such as "If we could settle arrangements before our date begins” in a soft not desperate or demanding voice.
How do you keep your money safe? • Remember to always get payment first. It relieves worry stress for you, so you can relax and be a better companion to your date.
• Never be trusting or open, do not discuss sex or mention the word sex before getting paid in full, just in case it is undercover police, journalist, or private detective, or they have a wire. This includes regular clients, because you never know, and you will always be a whore in their eyes so you have no reason to fully trust them.
• Do not let anyone know you are carrying any amount of cash, checks, or credit card slips, jewelry, iPad, or anything valuable on you at any time.
• When you've finished your appointment go straight home to stash the money or deposit the money at an ATM. Remember to use a different ATM every time so nobody sees you regularly depositing money and can wait to mug you.
• Do not shop for more than normal basics in your neighborhood or regular supermarket.
• Do not let neighbors, friends, boyfriends, or family see you have more money than usual.
• Do not wear flashy new jewelry or new clothes around your neighborhood or people.
• Take your jewelry off after seeing a client and while carrying large amounts of money.
• Keep your "night business" bank account in a separate bank and a separate neighborhood to your "normal day" account; bank tellers like to gossip with locals and they have access to your account details.
• While you are reaching your goal, is OK to make your life a little comfortable away from prying eyes, but put every other penny away to get closer to the end of the tunnel.
• Once you've reached your goal, then you can reward yourself openly, within reason, and tell people you won the lottery.
Homework 1. Using prices at your level, create pricing that promotes your longest package.
2. Make a safety plan to hide your money and shopping from prying eyes.
3. Make a map of your bank ATMs near your home, but not in your neighborhood
❦20 How Do Be a Successful Escort?
Just because you earning $1,000 or more per day as an escort doesn't mean you are successful or will reach your goals. There are many details to maintain to ensure you are not wasting money and eroding your goals.
Promote Your Uniqueness If you try to appeal to too many different tastes, you will appeal to nobody. People
are drawn to uniqueness. A wealthy person looks for unique qualities in a companion or date and wants those qualities to stick out. What makes you fun, exciting, discreet, playful, elegant, relaxing, and mysterious? Don't die your hair fake blond or wear generic stripper heals and g-string, every cheap hooker does that. Highlight your natural assets and beauty and you will look unique and worth another look. If you want to be a bit more incognito take up an exotic persona, such as a Bond Girl or a Tango Mistress and be the actress and entertainer you are being paid big bucks to be.
Never Stop Learning Read and update business and marketing plans and running procedures and content to accommodate audience and clients’ needs and tastes. Keep a journal of changes and improvements and read the business and investment news to keep up with how wealthy people are doing financially.
Track Your Advertising Results If you don't track how many clients or responses you get from your ad in a particular directory how do you know where your money is working and where it is being wasted? Every ad, every web site directory hit, every change you make to your ad should be tracked and recorded, so you get the best value and clients for your money. A directory should tell you how many clicks your ad gets and always ask clients where they found your info and keep a record of it.
Creative Pricing Structure Half hour sessions are a NO-NO-NO! What half hour sessions tell a wealthy man is that you do not value yourself and you can’t be bothered to get a decent hairdresser or an education. High-end companions do not offer half hour rates. Pricing structure should make longer packages look like a better deal. Fewer clients for more money are better for your head, body, and bank account.
Marketing, Advertising, Photography For a companion that is new to the business, launching a new name and persona, seeking new clients, or trying to gain exposure, it is best to spend a budget of 25% of income on your marketing and advertisements. Once you are established with regular high paying clients the marketing budget can be shaved down to 10%. But keep up the fitness and beauty and post new photos and blogs regularly for newsletter and subscription members.
Use Preventative Screening Set up a secure contact form. Contact forms and contain fields that are mandatory to fill out before a new client can submit it. A new client cannot leave out important details and asking for real information screens out 90% of time wasters. You can also charge a small yearly membership fee for clients and members to receive newsletters and access a member’s area so you don’t have to screen and learn the likes and dislikes of new clients every time. The screening also helps the client stay loyal to you because they’ve been through the process with you and that makes them feel secure.
Professional Model Photos - No Nudity If you publish photos of your tits and vagina or grainy cell phone pics of you in a bathroom then you are going to get a lot of nasty vulgar time waster jerk off’s that take hours a day to weed through to find real business. This is why high-end escorts have more time on their hands than those who stick their g-stringed ass in the camera. To be taken seriously by wealthy people, only post your highest quality, most elegant, alluring photos that make you look like movie star or fashion model and leave something to the imagination. Wealthy clients like to be intrigued and will pay more for a good head game to distract them from being wealthy and powerful. Less is more money. LESS IS MORE MONEY! Say it out loud three times – “LESS IS MORE MONEY...” “LESS IS MORE MONEY...” “LESS IS MORE MONEY...”
Good Ad Copy Use a word processing programs and always check for misspellings, sentences, run-on errors. Your ads and web copy should eloquently written, short and succinct and easy to understand. Minimal use of superlatives, and no slutty talk at all! You should write about yourself as if you are writing to a lover, your aim is to engage the reader in your words and taking the reader with you on a secret journey just the two of you.
abbreviations, fragmented
sentences, or other grammar
Make Your Web Site All About The Client When you surf the web you probably spend more time on websites that cater more to your experience than shoving products in your face. Your client feels the same way; he interested in finding the information he needs to feel safe about you and how much you cost. More to the point, what a client might not be aware of is that he is most interested in how your web site makes him feel. Write your copy in a way that makes your client or viewer feel safe and special and the center of your attention, like you are writing about yourself and posing in your photos just for him. Take him on a fantasy journey that a man really wants to go on be it wine in the mountains or private box at a football game.
Time Management Planning out your day prevents wasting your day. Plus your clients are on a very limited and defined time schedule so you must work around that regardless of your own rhythm. The following are tips and examples for time management and what to do to de-stress and get domestics done without losing time or blowing cash.
1. Keep daily, weekly and monthly calendar and To Do lists.
2. Group what is happening in the same locations with back-to-back times where possible.
3. Reserve two mornings or afternoons a week go to the spa, hair salon, massage and pamper your product, or have lunch with a girlfriend and not think or talk about work.
4. Reserve one morning per week to do bookkeeping and update your scheduling and To Do lists, review your spending and earnings, and pay bills.
5. Reserve one morning, afternoon, or evening per week to do laundry and domestics.
6. Reserve one hour per morning to wake up, eat breakfast, make the bed and tidy your space, and shower.
7. Reserve 1 1/2 hour per day or eve for exercise 30 minutes cardio, 30 minutes stretch or you can multitask it errands.
8. Reserve 10 yourself without distractions.
9. Reserve 1 to 2 hours per day to wind down after work away from your day life.
with domestic duties and bicycle
minutes a day to sit quietly by 10. Reserve 8 hours per 24 hours to sleep soundly in your bed without distractions.
11. Reserve 1 day per month to go shopping, but don't blow all your money. Use a separate cash account and ATM card with a limited amount for personal shopping.
12. Reserve 4 hours twice a week to sew a new outfit for work.
Set Reachable Goals and Exit Strategies Treat your business like it’s a business, get clear on your goals and why you are doing this and write a business plan and exit strategy. It could be full time education or starting a business or buying a house, or getting married and having kids. Write down realistic goals and time lines and stick to them. When you have something to work for you do not get sucked into your work as much, because you can see a tangible light at the end of the tunnel. If you can't think of a goal then go to therapy and join a volunteer organization and keep going to therapy and volunteering to help unlock the inspiration until you think of a goal.
Mailing List and Newsletter Without a mailing list you are at the mercy of escort reviews, chat rooms, search engine rankings, as well as economic and political climates, fashion, and the strange whims of men. People usually don’t purchase a product or service the first time they see it on a web site or in a magazine. People surf directories for hours or weeks and return to ads that have caught their eye more than once. A companion needs to sweetly remind her clients and fans every once and awhile that she's in town around and open for business. Successful escorting is figuring out how to maintain and deepen relationships over time. That is the difference between a lady that is still hustling dozens of clients with few repeats, and a “high class companion” that has half a dozen wealthy benefactors.
Don't Steal Don’t Con We live in the age of the Internet and escort reviews. You do not want your review to say, "THIS SKANK IS A THIEF." Plus you do not want a disgruntled ex-client and his online buddies on a mission to track you down; they will not just ask for the stuff returned, they can and quite often will take their pound of flesh. To them you are nothing but a thieving whore no matter how exp
ensive your clothes are. If you ever get tempted to steal, think about the worst scenario that could happen, it's not pretty and neither will you be. Creating trouble attracts trouble. Integrity is a sign of a classy woman and helps keep your headspace balanced and light and thinking clearly.
Managing “Down-Time Crazy Head” It is a fact of most businesses that you are going to have busy times and you are going to have slow times. Full-time high-end companions have a lot of time on their hands between clients to do marketing, blogging and photos to members, leaving still a lot of free time. You make an average person's whole week’s paycheck in an hour or so. That leaves 166 hours of free time, minus 20 running the business end, and most women I know in this business, myself included, do a lot of shopping during those hours to make us feel better. When you run out of money it makes the down times totally suck. It’s easy for somebody else to say, “Don’t blow your earnings!” but I know from personal experience that kind of self-control isn’t easy, in fact it takes almost superhuman effort sometimes. You want to buy nice things to make yourself feel better. Experienced working girls will agree that no matter how slow it is, business can and will turn around, usually overnight, and your schedule will be full of clients again. Whenever you run into a spate of downtime, keep reminding yourself that within a day, or a week, or two, you will be cashed up again. Meantime don’t blow all your money, go to a museum or study online or use the time to write your blog or send out an extra newsletter or start an online business. Keep yourself productively occupied without blowing your cash. A booking could come in the next hour, you just never know, and it often happens when you least expect it. People are looking at your ads and making plans 24/7 not just when you want them to. You will be amazed at how many clients will tell you they saw your listing 4 weeks or 3 months ago.
Don't Discount Your Rates If business is slow and you are tempted to lower your rates in order to get a client today, DON’T, DON'T, DON'T! Clients aren’t interested in how much you charge they are interested in you. The person looking at your ad today probably won't contact you for another 3 weeks. Clients call when they have the time and if you are what they are looking for, not because you are offering a discount. When they do make a booking they will pay the price in your ad. If you discount your rates for quick one or two hundred dollars today, you will end up with no work tonight, and tomorrow clients will pay a discount rate that’s less than your worth. So find something useful or fulfilling during down times to take your mind off shopping or partying and you will have cash during those down times, plus not feel desperate and needy when you do have clients.