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in a 9 to 5 job dealing with and
listening to peoples’ issues, on top of temptations from clients who use. Sometimes it makes you want to get wasted, but you must take a deep breath and not get wasted. Instead go home and have a hot bath with aromatherapy, slather yourself in your favorite smelling lotion and read a good book to sleep and sleep late. Next day do something really physical, like a jog, or flow yoga class, or kickboxing until you get the thing that wanted you to get wasted out of your system and your head. It’s up to you to make the choice.
Homework 1. Practice faking snorting, such as lightly blowing it away, and smoking drugs, such as not fully inhaling, and drinking alcohol, such as spilling a bit on the floor out of view and test your skills on friends. Your possible future depends on it.
2. Monitor your substance intake and check in with a professional for therapy and to gage your addiction if any.
❦Part Four Testing and Graduation
❦34 Real World Testing
If you’ve followed everything in this book and done all the homework, it should be at least 6 months practice and refinement since should now be ready for real means actually going to places where wealthy men hang out and seeing if you fit in and if they are attracted to you. But first some refresher lessons on important main points to get wealthy people to accept you and be attracted to you.
you started. You life testing which
Style Fashion research what people wear and how they do their make up and hair and how they act and treat each other in these places so you know how to look and what to do to fit in but stand out. It is OK to want to improve yourself so you have more choices for your future. Before you set out to these places remember to dress and act the part of a nice girl next door from head to toe, else you might not be let in the door, seriously. The management and staff in establishments for wealthy people are trained to smell con artists, prostitutes, and cheap gold diggers from a mile a way and keep them out. It’s a part of what these places are paid big membership fees and donations for.
Familiarity Some wealthy people go to the same events and if they start to see you at different events from a distance, it’s like becoming a regular and they will gradually get more comfortable to approach you. Don’t approach their men or flirt with anything but a gentle glance of your eyes and only if he flirts first, they want mystery, but don’t play too shy or too hard to get they don’t want it to be too hard. You don’t need cleavage, pick up lines or a tight dress, you just need good manners, and nice smile, composure and eye contact and your fashionable styling and good speaking voice and conversation skills do the rest.
Composure The biggest difference between a high-class girl and a low-class girl is self-control. High class girls don’t talk loudly or boast about themselves, they don’t talk on their cell phones in company, don’t flip out in front of anybody, don’t cuss, don’t show off, don’t put on a show, don’t throw tantrums or even hissy fits, don’t talk down to servers or staff or anybody, don’t over-tip, and don’t laugh or yell out loud or stumble drunkenly or tipsy about nor leer or stare at anybody. A high-class girl gets attention by looking very stylish, being very composed, and being very polite and conversational and well mannered to make people feel comfortable around her. Very wealthy people don’t like “LOUD”, so again the lesson is “Less is More”.
Make Friends With Wealthy Women You don’t have to walk up to women, if they thing you are truly high-class and not after their husbands, wear a wedding band, they will find a way to approach you. Seek out opportunities to start a conversation for example if somebody drops something pick it up for them and make a comment on the even or day’s happenings, or a little joke. Make friends with wealth women and when they feel safe with you they will give you the background info on everybody going to these events and introduce you to the best men available.
Places to Meet Wealthy Men The following are safe places to test what you’ve learned in a straight life wealthy people situation with without anybody knowing that you are an escort or seeking a relationship. Do your homework and practice and get it right first time, as they may not let you through the door a second time even with your self-improvements.
Luxury Gyms and Day Spas Working wealthy men have high stress levels and need to unwind and that’s when they let their eyes roam. Get a membership or a part time job at the highest-end gym or spa in certified massage or yoga certificate to good use.
your city. Put your
or personal trainer
Charity Benefits Charity events are social scenes for wealthy people to meet and hang out with other wealthy people. Read the social pages of local newspapers and philanthropy magazines and sites to see which charities attract the largest number of wealthiest people and intern or volunteer at their events.
Financial District Downtown coffee shops and open-air restaurants, sports bars, commercial banks and convention venues, where men go for business or to lunch and let their eyes roam. Regularly explore the financial district of your city.
Auctions Real estate auctions for real estate investors, classic cars and fine art for gentlemen collectors, you get the idea. Check local listings and do homework, so you are informed about the pieces going to auction and can talk about them with a potential date. You don’t have to buy anything; you can just love the pieces or style and want to see it live in auction as an observer’s sport.
Real Estate Get a real estate license and specialized in showing small expensive apartments styled to wealthy men’s tastes. Start as an intern with reputable agency that caters to your target type of wealthy man.
Sporting Events Golf tournaments, VIP bars at ball games and horse races, the viewing lawns at tennis matches, yacht regattas (sail imported car establishments people and expensive cars go. Learn to dress like those people.
boat races), horse shows, classic
shows. Look for events and where neatly expensively dressed
Horse Events Almost anything to do with horses; horse races, horse shows, horse polo, fox hunting, show jumping, western riding. Horses are very expensive to keep and even more expensive to play with. It’s the “Sport of Kings” remember. Some horse events, such as horse races are big fashion gatherings where women are encouraged to wear their finest clothes and hats and of course shoes for men. It’s OK to be part of the audience at these events, bring a camera with a long telephoto lens to scope out possible targets. It may sound strange but men like big lenses on cameras in women’s hands, and while you are at it take some nice photos of some horses and hats for your web site. I grew up in the horsey set and went to pony club and I even rode in a couple of fox hunts show jumps and went to plenty of horse races, which is how I learned.
Graduation Tests Ace the following real world tests using the information in this chapter and you are on your way to successfully dating wealthy men or positioning yourself to finding wealthy sugar daddies or clients.
Test # 1 Getting through the door
Test # 2 Being accepted as a regular or staff
Test # 3 Making friends with wealthy women
Test # 4 Getting personal introductions to wealthy men
Summary Keywords: Location, Regularity, Composure, Style, Fitting In, Making Friends.
❦34 Plutonic Test Dates
An upscale escort cannot enjoy her work and a woman cannot be good in bed if personalities clash. Test your skills as a luxury companion without sex and double screen your clients at the same time by going on test dates. Many VIP Escorts will have professional plutonic date with new clients to see if their personalities match. A respectful wealthy person will appreciate this, because they also want to make sure they click with a person before they get more intimate. For somebody who is new to the business this is a good way to get your feet wet and make some cash until you are ready to get more intimate with clients. Below are examples of discreet ads for a plutonic companion to give you an idea on how to get started and how to be succinct and highlight unique points without g
eneric sexual innuendos or g-strings. Remember never to copy somebody else’s words, always write in your own words to give your ad copy a genuine authentic feel.
Plutonic Ad Examples
#1
Date Coach Available for Lunch and Dinner
Hi My Name is Jessica, I’m a former debutant, mid 40’s with the body of curvy but fit mid 30’s, college educated, fashion and etiquette trained, attractive, widely read, married twice, and world traveled. I’m looking for somebody to take me out for dinner or lunch and share good conversation and quality time. You help me pay my bills and I’ll help you improve your dating and relationship skills. What I offer is good company and conversation, plutonic
companionship, and 20 years of real world dating, marriage, and relationship experience and tips on table manners, decorum, and style. We meet at public cafes and restaurants and you wine and dine me just as a normal date and ask me questions about relationships and dating I give you tips on what you are doing right and what needs tweaking. Fees are $200 for two to three hour session. All sessions are conducted in public restaurants only.
#2
Date Coach by a VIP Escort Have you ever wanted to just talk to an escort to find out what it’s like, or find out what to do before you hire an escort for sex? I’m a former VIP Escort and f debutant, yes really, that catered to wealthy clients and have a day job and been married twice, so understand your side of things and what normal life and relationships are like. What I offer is good company and conversation, plutonic companionship, and 20 years of real world dating, escorting, marriage, and relationship experience perspective and tips. You meet me at a public restaurant and wine and dine me just as a normal date and ask me questions about relationships and what to do with escorts and dating, and I give you real world tips on what needs tweaking. Single buddies with minimal knowledge of escorts, relationships and dating can get you into trouble. Get your info from a source with 30 years comprehensive real world experience. My fees are $200 for a two to three-hour session one on one (As a VIP Escort I received $2,000 to $3,000). Public cafes and restaurants only, No sex or intimacy involved, just talk, I’m retired. Serious inquiries only… Contact me by email and include a cover letter about yourself and date and time you would like to meet. No Photos - emails with photos are deleted.
I’m based in San Francisco
Homework 1. Make a list of all your positive points without being sexual, such as college educated, internationally traveled, speak multiple languages, and a few hobbies and interests.
2. Create an ad for a plutonic professional companion and post it on your local escort boards to gage response.
3. If somebody seems serious go on a date with him or her as practice sessions, but don’t tell the client they are practice sessions.
❧Part 5
Advice For Wealthy Men ❦35 This Is Your “Me Time”
Whatever your single player buddies say about how to deal with escorts and women… ignore it. They do not work in the industry and they are not women nor do they know what goes on in an escort or woman’s mind. You are reading this because you want to know from a real escort and a real woman what an escort and a woman thinks and how they like to be treated so they will give you great service. Only a VIP escort knows the difference between a quality escort and a cheap hooker and what goes on in their minds. Your buddies and the review web sites can only fantasize. If you are a heterosexual male reading this book you are probably thinking this all sounds very complicated you are a bit out of your depth. Yes it is complicated, but you are not out of your depth. Women have to do a lot more work to look good and move about safely in the real world than men do, even in the 21.2st century. This part of the book is devoted to simplifying things for men from a man’s perspective to help clients of upscale sex workers stay safe and nice girls and maybe meet a new friend of quality and substance. Who cares what anybody else thinks, as you’ve read in this book, it’s how royalty have done it for hundreds and thousands of years. This is your Me Time nobody else’s.
No Judgments Intelligent women of all socio economic backgrounds, vocations, careers, and moralities are instinctively attracted to men with money and power because it means their babies, even if their aren’t any, will be well taken care of, it is genetically encoded they can’t help it. Virile men of all socio economic backgrounds, vocations, and moralities instinctively build money and power to take care of their heirs, if any or not, because it is also genetically encoded. If it weren’t genetically encoded to seek resources and security and control of our surroundings the human species would not survive. Whatever your moral upbringing nothing changes that fact and to judge it is to judge yourself and judge your mother and father. It has been proven in studies and small town experiences that Sex workers and healthy attitudes towards them prevent rape on your sisters and daughters and help prevent perversions such as pedophilia, and help improve marriages. Dude I’ve been checking it out for thirty years and it is the reality. Sex workers in a very real way are therapists who help people with special needs and issues and are there for people to have somebody to talk to. Without sex workers you get radical male groups with no outlet that turn to group violence, such as terrorism and the Taliban. I’m not talking porn as that increases sexual tension - groups like the Taliban lures young boys in by promising them porn - I’m talking sexual release to calm those blue balls down caused by the porn and sexual innuendo on TV and advertising.
❦36 What Kind of Provider
Whatever is it you are seeking a sex worker for it’s often not just about sex. Most guys see prostitutes and strippers for one or several reasons, but some reasons required more of a special kind of provider than others.
A. Need somebody to just talk to. Seek a provider that is at lease 26 years old and has experienced a few years of life experience so you have something to talk about.
B. Need to brush up on dating or escorting skills. Seek out a provider that is at least 40 years old and has experienced a few years of normal dating, socializing, and relationships, so she can give you real world well heeled advice.
C. Just a straight release. Any clean drug free provider over 21 years old and reasonably sane can help with this.
D. Lonely for female company or wife isn’t into you or visa versa. Seek out a provider that is at lease 30 years old and has experienced a few years marriage so she can understand what you are going through.
E. Fetish that needs to be satisfied. Seek a provider with at least 3 years experience in the fetish of your choice, so you have a better chance of getting professional quality service.
F. Somebody to party with. Seek an experienced escort at least 28 years old who has some life experience and is not going to O.D. or get stupid on whatever it is you are partying with.
G. A few girls to go to restaurant and private party with visiting business associates. Seek women at least 25 years of age who are well dressed and college educated, and you’ve dated before so you understand each other a little better. Less chances of overdrinking crazy scenes, bad attitudes, or trouble. Plus educated women can entertain your guests with witty conversation better than any bottle blonde 18-year-old girl and think of your business as better quality and prestige.
H. A fantasy girlfriend and lover’s sex experience like in the movies. Seek a provider who is a good dancer and is at least 30 years old, women are horniest between 32 and 38, it’s hormones caused by their body clocks, they have no choice. Dancers move better in bed and are more agile. succinctly what you making the booking.
Explain clearly and want when you are I. Travel companion. A provider over 25 and traveled and likes the same kind of food and entertainment you like and you talk easily with. You want somebody who has traveled so you don’t have to tell them what to do during travel.
Homework 1. Write down what you want to see a provider for and what type of provider will suit your purposes.
2. Research what web sites and social networking sites have the type of providers you a
re looking for.
❦37 Finding A Quality Provider
Have a good look at ads of sex providers in your location and select the three that you like the most. Sifting through escort ads is fun, but if you are actually going to meet with her it can be daunting and dangerous. You want a provider who is not desperate, because desperate people are 99.9% lousy lays as well as trouble, such as stealing, drugs, bad attitude, and mugging. While no amount of background checking or reviews can give you 100% safety, taking heed of the following warning signs will prevent multiple shit loads of trouble.
Warning Signs
High If she looks or sounds like she’s on drugs, 99.9% of the time she is on drugs, which means she’s desperate which means she’s 99.9% more likely to be a lousy lay, have a bad attitude, steal, have a pimp, freak out for no reason, or have a stalker or mugger boyfriend, or some other way to be trouble for you. Drugs and the sex industry are a bad mix, don’t go there.
Drunk
If she looks or sounds like she’s drunk - read High
Explicit In her advertising photos she shows her vagina or boobs or her playing with her vagina or boobs or her playing with another girl or man’s private parts etc. Either the photos are not of her or she’s desperate, or clueless, and in all cases 99.9% can result in trouble, bad company, or a lousy lay or all of the above.
Cheap Photos If it’s a happy snap of herself in a g-string or cheap underwear from a cell-phone in a cheap looking bathroom or bedroom you know she doesn’t spend any money on her business. This can mean any of three things #1 She doesn’t care about her business, which means she may not care about giving you good service. #2 She doesn’t have a clue about what’s she’s doing and could be trouble or have trouble following her. #3 She has a pimp, and could possibly be a sex slave or/and is underage.
Indiscreet Shows her face and or identifying tattoos in photos. Talks loudly on the phone and you can hear others in the background, wears flashy jewelry and tacky designer clothes and does a lot of shopping. Not necessarily trouble, but doesn’t care about or isn’t aware of the dangers of too may people knowing what she does, which means she’s also not looking out for your needs in the discretion department. Definitely not somebody you can take out to dinner in a public restaurant in case somebody recognizes her and/or recognizes you with her.