Wealthy Men for Money or Love Page 11

  Don't Wear Thongs Or G-Strings Unless a client specifically requests it, avoid wearing thongs or g-strings or tight panties and clothes. A woman's productive tract and urethra (urinal tract) and her anus (where shit comes out) are only an inch and a half apart from each other. If you strap a piece of cloth around tightly there it's going to rub back and forth and put bacteria from your anus (shit, crap, number 2, etc.) into your vagina, which causes bacterial and yeast infections and smelly vagina. Wear loose fitting natural fabric panties, no elastic in the leg openings to avoid panty lines, and a natural fabric gusset keep your vagina healthy and feel sexy.

  Go Vegetarian Diet and meat, especially red meat and poultry, changes the makeup and smell of your body and juices. Avoiding meat helps keep your weight down and skin clear, and makes your juices smell and taste sweet. Clean diet also makes your body smell and taste sweet, which is especially important for clients who like to lick. I know licking sounds gross, but you have to act and make your body respond as if you like it.

  Homework 1. Buy a bottle of apple cider vinegar and a douche bottle.

  2. Buy two sea sponges and some dental floss.

  3. Take a break from caffeine for 6 weeks to refresh your system.

  4. Get a big jar of local raw honey and throughout the sugar and sweetener.

  5. Buy a good vegetarian cookbook.

  6. Practice putting a condom on a banana with your mouth.

  ❦25 What Do Men Want?

  The first question to answer is “Why do men see sex workers?” Most men have seen a sex worker at least once in their lives, at least those that have had sex. Seeing a sex worker is a right of passage and what most men and some women consider as learning about sex safely. Some men are too busy, some men don’t like their wives, and some do it as a hobby. Then there are men that genuinely can’t get a date because they have a disability or are socially awkward, out of practice, or childhood mental abuse, or some other cause that makes them awkward with women; the 40-year-old virgin is not a myth. Like it or not when the semen builds up it has to come out or men find an outlet, such as rape and violence or group together and start wars and terrorism and crazy dictators. If the man is seeing a therapist about it, often their therapist will refer them to sex surrogates. But that is so clinical and while it helps downstairs it is not an actual date situation to help the guy get dating and romantic sex practice to find a healthy long-term relationship. For most men with dating problems all they need is one on one practice with somebody who is paid to be romantic as well as sexual with them just like a wife. I have several friends who are very good looking men with great jobs or businesses and from very well connected wealthy families, some who’s parents have tea with Queens and Princess regularly. But when it comes to talking to women in a potential date situation these men get confused and nervous and say the wrong thing or freeze up. They’ve had dates and had sex but it was usually with desperate women who often turned out to be stalkers or left them with debts and babies. These men can talk easily with me because my experience and skill as a VIP companion makes them feel comfortable to engage in conversation. Then they brighten up and relax and turn out to be very brilliant thinkers who care about the world, which for me is very sexy. It’s something one grows to love about grace and manners and educated conversation, much better than television or web surfing or video games. To me, human interaction is better than virtual on more levels and in more ways because it is real life and what we are placed on this planet to experience. Get the best you can out of life, and you will feel fulfilled. But back to what men want. I posed the following 2 questions to a male friend mid 40's in San Francisco.

  Question 1 "If you had $5000 to spend on a high-end escort/companion for a day/night what would you look for?"

  Answer (Strewn amongst sanctimonious male waffle I was able to glean the following key points...) • "Clean, Clean, Clean"

  • Disease Free

  • Makes the session about me (client) and doesn't talk about herself, her boyfriend, or dramas in her life.

  • Isn't needy or neurotic.

  • Doesn't talk all the time.

  • Intelligent

  • Gracious and polite.

  • Keeps the vibe light.

  • No heavy, dark, or moody energy or vibe.

  • Friendly and personable.

  • Enjoys sex

  • Nice smile

  • No drugs or drunkenness - A drink or toke or two OK, but no arriving or getting wasted or plastered. “ A hooker of that price is a professional entertainer, she's being paid to entertain me (client), not indulge in her own misery... she needs to leave the sex industry for a while”

  • No gaudy clothes, accessories, or make up.

  • Ideal attire: Nice tight (but not too tight) tshirt, nicely fitted (but not too tight) jeans, low heals, hair in a bun.

  • No makeup or very minimal makeup.

  • "Natural, Natural, Natural"

  • Has mystery, doesn't lay it all out all at once, she allows me (the client) a challenge getting to know her bit by bit. Lets me (the client) do the digging and chasing, a challenge.

  • Has depth and character, many layers to discover.

  • Is only doing sex work for a short time, has goals and plans and time lines and a life outside the industry.

  • Takes breaks from sex work, 4 weeks on and 2 weeks off or like that.

  • Is an expert in social skills

  • Has an artist's soul.

  • Is a talented immersive entertainment artiste

  • Can create a fantasy romance immersive experience.

  Question 2 "If you had $5,000 per day/night to see this woman on a regular basis, and go traveling together on occasion what else would you require?"

  Answer Has integrity, versatility, adaptability, and can be trusted 100% in any situation.

  Homework 1. Write down what in the above list you have?

  2. Write down what in the above list you need to work on?

  3. Go to nice bars, dressed nicely and see if you can engage awkward men in conversation. Don’t dress or act sexy and don’t give them the impression you want to have sex with them. Just talk at the bar in public. Don’t give them your contact info but do take their business cards.

  ❦26 What Do You Wear?

  If you want to date wealthy men, you have to look like a wealthy man’s date. Take a look at the girls on Craigslist, Eros-guide, City Vibe, Backpage, and escort and sugar baby web sites. Whatever those women and girls are wearing don't wear it, what ever their style is don't do it. High-end companions don't look or act like escorts and are never noticed or stopped by hotel security or police. Now take a look at high-end European fashion magazines such as Italian Vogue. A high-end woman looks like a nice educated good looking fashionable woman visiting a friend; you would never think they are a hooker. The most important thing to not getting busted and to attracting high-end clients is to not look like a prostitute. If you walk into 5 star hotel wearing skin tight spandex, loud makeup, huge loop earrings, a fake designer overstuffed handbag, and stripper heals, unless you are an octogenarian (80 years old) yenta, ala Fran Dresher's grandmother, you won't make it past the front door, let alone to the door of your client's hotel room. And even if you make it to your client's hotel room door, the client will probably slam the door in your face and call hotel security himself. Boom you've just lost $350 to $ 3,500 worth of work, you are busted and banned from a 5 star hotel who probably emailed your photo and description to all the other 5 star hotels and highend concierges, so you are now barred from all the good hotels in town with high paying clients as well as a circle or two of high-end concierges. About all that's left after that is to leave town and start again in some other city.

  My girl you have some fashion growing up to do if you want to earn big bucks for less fucks. (Pardon my language.) Wealthy men, 95% of the time, want highly paid companions to look like wealthy women they can take home to Mother, because that is what the
y trust. Not that they ever will take you to see Mother or family, but you must at least look the part. In this industry first impressions count the most. Think before you dress. Become a Fashonista and subscribe to Italian Vogue and start checking out runway shows of latest couture collections online. It's a fun study and improves your eye for style. To see these kind of fashions close up, go to high-end department stores and check out their couture sections. Look at the inside of the clothes and how they are sewn and finished and note what the fabrics are made from. These types of clothes are what you want to be wearing as a high-end companion. Tell the sales person you are a student fashion designer or stylish want to see what "real clothes" are made of and how they fit. Ask about the fabrics and how the clothes are made. The sales people will understand and be very helpful. The sales people in these establishments are also style specialists and can help you with the right accessories for high-end clothes. Tip: Don't paw or roughly handle the clothes, make sure your hands are clean, and at least act like you are slightly in awe. Genuine fashion students and couture collectors are respectful and even reverent when handling very expensive clothing; it also gains the trust of sales people so they share more info with you.

  Sticker Shock Sounds and looks great, except paying the price of a car for a dress is out of your price range. I know, but if you are willing to put in the effort anything is possible. You need to look like money to attract money and wealthy men like quality, but it doesn't have to have a designer label. If you don't have a designer budget, buy a sewing machine from a thrift store and invest in sewing lessons and some good simply stylish sewing patterns and fabrics. Quality is not just fashion sense it is common sense. Paying more for a quality made and fit garment saves money, shopping time and travel costs, and the environment in the long term because it is more versatile and lasts years longer. Quality will always looks better on you and people notice that. Learn to love and respect your clothes.

  Benefits of Sew Your Own • More cash to save to reach goals faster.

  • Sewing skills are useful in your normal day life.

  • A couture wardrobe for less than cost.

  • Learn what fits you well and how to make it fit.

  • You can afford to be best dressed every day.

  • Sewing can be a pleasure and "me" time.

  • Clothes feel like real clothes.

  • Clothes feel more comfortable to wear for work.

  • Clothes look better and last longer.

  • Simple classics never go out of fashion.

  • Healthier than shopping or partying or worrying.

  Fashion Empower Yourself When I went to high school they still had Home Economics, plus my mother and aunties sewed at home and made most of their own clothes. Many women made their own clothes and often wives, daughters, and grandmothers would make all clothes, drapes, bed-sheets, doilies, throws, scarves, and sweaters for the whole family. Why do you think people in photos before 1970 were so well dressed in good quality fabrics all the time? Today's women have been disempowered by being programmed into needless shopping for designer labels by too much television, to much advertising, and too many crappy fashion magazines telling them that the trashy slut wear is tasteful. It's so not, the same ideals of good fashion taste are the same today as they were in the 1960's, timeless and simple and self-fashion empowered. In 2010 today's woman needs to and can take extra classes, such as sewing and cooking, to catch up, so she can teach the next generation and give her descendants their self-empowerment.

  What to Sew and Wear to Attract A Man Start with a pattern for a simple Mod style dresses, fully lined and finished. Mod style dresses always look tasteful and are easy to make and can be dressed up or down, preppy with pumps or cool with accessories and tights and knee high boots. Because the dress is simple and flattering on most body types you can be creative with your accessories, but not too much. Examples: Low -heal vintage style pumps and boots. You will also need some coats to look good over your dress for cold weather and evening, so look for a simple coat pattern that has a vintage silhouette to compliment your mod dress. Make a few copies in different kinds of fabric in silk and lightweight wool. What kind of fabrics: Silk, light weight wool, linen, organic cotton. Good quality natural fabrics with simple classic styling are noticed and appreciated by wealthy men and last through years of wears and fashion fads. It often takes a year for an escort to save up for a high-end wardrobe. With sewing lessons, a few yards of dupioni silk, and focus you can have a $4,000 cocktail dress within a few days. As your sewing skills improve you can move on to more tailored and persona. Example: steampunk, or copying the latest couture street wear from Fashion week.

  complicated designs for your

  Vintage 30's and 40's,

  Find a Good Seamstress If you have some cash and no time get custom made clothes. It it’s not cheap but you will be saving thousands on popular couture designer labels and saving time, so don’t cheap out on your seamstress. Good sewers are very, very, very rare, because sewing is a dying art or has died out in most towns. Save your local seamstress population before they all leave or give up. Fashion designers have trouble finding sewers, even if they pay a decent rate. Cheap clothes from places such as China have make people forget what a quality garment is and how much work there is in creating it. America used to be respected for it's quality fashion and folks around the world pay a premium for it. A custom jacket or Edwardian gown or prom gown from scratch, pattern and everything takes at least 2 weeks with a machine and 40 days or more if 100% hand stitched. To remake a pair of vintage stretch skinny pants from a medium size pattern up to a 24-inch waist with custom hip fit takes a week. Plus each garment needs at least 3 fittings to get the fit right. The gown or jacket will cost at least $600 for time and the pants 350 at $8.85 or less per hour at 40 hours per week, not including materials. Do you work for $8.75 or less per hour? I don't think so. So if you cheap out on your local seamstress you can now understand why she won't sew for you or anybody anymore. I’ve talked to many talented seamstresses who will no longer sew for other people because clients have cheaped-out or treat them like servants. Preserve your relationship with your seamstress and you will have a supply of seamstresses and the art not die out in your area. Pay your seamstresses extra and send them as much business as you can, in return you will have clothes and furnishings worth many times longer and lasting many times more and way more comfortable and good looking than store or web bought. Also don't ask a seamstresses or indie designer for freebees or discounts, they genuinely can't afford it, most of them can barely cover costs.

  What Kind of Shoes Your shoes need to show some personality and style to catch your date’s eye without being gaudy or clashing with your outfit. Your shows and feet are an attraction, so they should always be clean and well cared for and look stylish and classy. There are a lot of men out there with secret shoe fetishes. What kind of shoes to wear depends on the date and what you are wearing, but a general rule is the higher the hem the lower the heel, and the lower the hem the higher the heel. And never wear heels on a boat, for safety as well as it’s a “Yachty” thing.

  Example Shoe Situations and Tips • If it is in a hotel room during the day low heals with jeans and a nice white top and jacket.

  • If it is in a hotel room at night, high heals and a nice colored top and coat.

  • If it is on a yacht or boat in the day, flats with jeans or shorts and a nice jacket or sweater.

  • If it is on a yacht at night for a party, then low heals and party wear. Boats move even when they are in dock so you need to keep your balance to keep your poise.

  • If it is out to dinner, 4inch heal pumps with a nice knee or just above the knee length dress.

  • If it is to a rock concert, Italian boots with heals or low heal, with jeans, an evening top, and coat or jacket.

  • Strappy sandals are for summer and evenings only.

  • If it's hiking in the woods then hiking boots or runners with cargo
pants or shorts and a body hugging t-shirt.

  • If it's walking in the park or going to a museum then flats or low wide heals in a day dress or jeans and a nice top. If the weather is cool bring a jacket or coat.

  • Glue little felt pads to your heals so you don't clip clop loudly or scratch your client's expensive wood or marble floors.

  • Look after your shoes, wipe them clean with a damp rag after each wear and touch up any scuffs.

  • To deodorize your shoes sprinkle a tablespoon of backing soda and leave over night, then vacuum out and wipe clean with a dry cloth.

  What Kind of Jewelry Keep it simple, complimenting your whole outfit without overpowering it, and doesn't jangle. Gold or Platinum and real gems in jewelry that’s subtle is safest. Start with something small and classic, such as pearl earrings, and let your clients buy you jewelry they like to add to your collection. Always wear a watch, something small and discreet and goes with your outfit, so you can keep track of time without pulling out your phone or asking your date. Don’t wear earrings that catch on your hair or clothes, too easy to loose and you don’t want the client’s wife to find it.

  What's in Your Purse? Take large clean white piece of paper, spread it out on a table and tip your purse upside down so the contents and dust all fall on the paper. Most of you are going to be a little shocked at how much crap you haul around, plus the gunk such as dirt, tobacco dust, bits of make up, candy wrappers, old transit tickets and scrunched up transit tickets and ATM and shopping receipts. If you turn your purse inside out the lining is probably stained and dusty. These are all big NO-NO-No’s for high-end companions. Your purse and its contents should be small, spotlessly clean, and absolute practical essentials only. Empty your purse every day and clean it and consolidate the contents down to absolute necessities. Keeping your purse tidy and organized in everyday life so you can reach in your purse and find what you want without looking.